I came across this posting from a bunch of trifling sistas who are former Facebook friends of mine. Actually what I’m doing is getting rid of all the trifling sistas from my timeline because the more petty people I delete from my Facebook friend list, the more quality chicks and brothas about something shows up on my timeline. There is this one chick I’m really chasing after and she Hyde Park Chicago quality and you got to have your game all the way turned up for someone like her – being in Atlanta made me slipped a little bit but I’m trying to step my game up for this Hyde Park honey, real talk. Can’t be going to the Promontory in Chicago looking like a brotha slipping if you know what I mean. Brothas what do you think about Maurice comment about being the “king” and the man who ain’t doing no 50/50 with a chick up in his house! He pay those bills and she hold the house down. He need to be the breadwinner and she need to take care of the house and if not, then what is she doing in the relationship? Do you think he is right, he is the king of his castle and his woman can just wash his underwear, cook his food and suck his diack and raise his babies while he at work doing what he have to do to bring home the bacon? Or is he some damn hopeless romantic fool talking sideway crap and ain’t got this game and how this liberal feminizing society works and Maurice ain’t figured it all out yet? Some brothas would say that Maurice is “old school” or whatever that means and he want a chick who at home raising the kids and holding down the house while he is out there making the money and getting the bills paid. After all, that is the animal kingdom and the primal nature of man and woman where the man goes out to hunt and gather while the woman maintain the shelter and nurture the pack. Maurice says if you cannot afford to take care of home and I think he talking about other brothas, he ask why you in a relationship if you cannot hold down the house by yourself as a man? Maurice is the man of his house and he is the king and that is his domain and he takes care of his woman and his family. That’s how Maurice feels how a man should be in this world instead of splitting bills with a chick who competing with him on who got the most money. Other brothas will say Maurice must have drank too much before posting this dumbass comment. Maurice ain’t recognizing the sistas out there will let his dumbass “hold the house down” for a few years and then take his ass to divorce court and get the house and the kids and alimony because they will give this posting above to the judge as evidence for the basis of alimony. And Maurice dumbass will be living in a weekly hotel still working that job or two paying child support and alimony to a chick bringing all kind of dudes around to f*ck in his former bed in his former house he was formerly holding down and she all moaning while his kids listen to the bed board hitting the wall and she screaming how big the other guy diack is. And the other guy ask her for some money and she says that Maurice should have her child support check in the mail and she will give him $100 bucks when she get that child support check for the new dude who don’t have a job and ride a bicycle around the neighborhood. So it’s time for you brothas to decide, do you agree with Maurice or think he is a naïve idiot that talk too damn much instead of looking at reality? You want to know my opinion about Maurice? Well, let me give you my honest opinion about Maurice and I admit that I drank a couple of bottles of Redd’s Apple Cider and let me make my point here – listen to me! First of all, Maurice don’t got no money – that is the first giveaway you should have notice from his rant. Only broke brothas would say that stupid crap Maurice just posted, you ain’t never going to hear a brotha with money say that dumbass nonsense that came out of Maurice head into a Facebook posting. His mindset is go make some chump change working for the man and the industry and then come home with his clothes all dirty but got something to put food on the table. Second, you already know what kind of brotha Maurice is – he thinks he own his woman and he will even use the word “my woman” in an argument or statement. Maurice will go around mad talking about “you trying to f*ck my woman?!” and stuff like that because he is possessive and think “his woman” obligated to sit around and wait for him to come home from a crappy job and put a loaf of bread and deli meat on the dinner table and appreciate the hard work Maurice put out there to bring home the bacon. Maurice don’t realize “his woman” can f*ck whoever she want to f*ck and it don’t mean ish anymore in court or church (pastor will try to f*ck her too) or anywhere else. Maurice can’t go f*ck on his woman without repercussions but his woman can f*ck on him and the feminist divorce court judge won’t even care to hear that crap as the judge gives her the house and the kids and order him to pay alimony for keeping her in the house – let me say again, Maurice don’t know about paying alimony every month to a chick he no longer messing with and some other dude is going on Carnival cruises with his alimony money eating the lobster and steak and horseback riding on the Cayman Islands with “his former woman” spending his alimony money. Maurice don’t know a damn thing about that. Let me give Maurice a piece of advice before I go – Maurice is right to want to be a man who have a wife he will provide for, fight for and love with all his heart and have children together in a home that he is working to maintain for his family and his legacy – that is his right and purpose as a man living on this earth. The problem is that Maurice need to realize that ish ain’t going to happen with an African-American woman and Maurice better start looking elsewhere for that happy stuff he chasing. Maurice the kind of woman you looking for is a Latina senorita or an Asian bae or an East African sista or a Muslim or Arab Christian – but you can’t handle them. You want to believe there is an African-American woman out there like that, she fooling you if you think that but there is none, not in the 21st century. But you need to understand something Maurice and I need you to hear this out. The only way you going to hold a woman down in the house is you have to have money. You Maurice don’t look like a brotha who got that kind of money, sorry but just being real. And brothas like you put a chick up in a house and only you have a job and you lose your damn job – plenty of brothas ran out on their wife and kids talking that crap you was talking Maurice who ran out on their homemaker wife and kids that depended on their black father. Why should she take that risk with a brotha like you seeing other sistas get left by their black man and father to her kids and the house is now going to be foreclosed on and they have to move to a temporary shelter? You want to live that manhood life Maurice, then get your money up and your situation up. And guess what? Once you get your money up and your situation up, you going to realize the chick you looking for don’t live in the USA unless she is an immigrant or came from a first generation immigrant family. And you going to realize that the woman who actually knows how to hold down the house and family has been raised by a mom and dad who ain’t giving their daughter up to anybody and she ain’t going to be someone you can control or hold down. She going to be your partner and she going to help you maintain the household and pay those bills and she will get a job when you get laid off and take care of you bro. That’s a real woman and that’s what you looking for and I can tell you haven’t found it yet. Take care of yourself first Maurice and get your passport and when you find her, you both will be 100/100 holding down each other.