An exceptional woman will make a brotha elevate his game, change his life, better himself even when he meet her for the very first time. I mentioned this before and any real man will verify my statement – a man will know within seconds of meeting a woman that she can be his wife and several seconds later of talking to her, decide she is worth changing his life around to be a better man for her. When I was young, the very first woman I fell in love with made me stayed in the military and motivated me to go to college so I can be in a good situation for both of us. Even though we never married, she gets full credit for making me the man I am today because I built my life up to create a prosperous world for her – what is what a good woman can do to make a brotha greater than the vision he has for himself. She is still in my life today and I really hold that to be one of the best blessings in my life. Lately, I have been meeting high quality women from all over the world and as a result, I’m beginning to step my game up big time and also going to change my ways on a lot of things. In this article, I want to show brothas how to move away from negative angry sistas who try to discount her own brotha and hold brothas back and move towards global sistas all over the world who is willing to support a brotha and help him become a greater man than he can vision for himself. How did I found these high quality women lately? From the Ethiopian sista who is thick and a listener and the Lebanese chick who is also thick and unselfish and my Chinese bae who is helping me stay focused on business and technology and then the Hyde Park Chicago sista and the Afro-European sista and the Argentinian sista? I done the following things and recommend brothas do these also: Strip Away Negative Females. I immediately removed from my life any female exhibiting negative behavior I didn’t like but I tolerated because I was brainwashed to believe an African-American man should be race loyal to these African-American women not loyal to us brothas but to these feminists and social entitlement programs. I don’t do lazy ignorant sistas who watch crap on TV like Scandal or live blog on Facebook about Empire or Power and just not going to tolerate that crap anymore. Any chick that likes going to drama chitlin plays or tithing to mega-church preachers can also go take a hike somewhere far away from me. So as I got rid of these crappy African-American sistas I used to put up with, the global sistas began to show and appear in my life because I made room for the positives after getting rid of the negatives. Changed My Environment. No longer do night clubs or shopping malls where I meet these trashy African-American females. I don’t talk to the broke ass chick working minimum wage jobs at the clothing store acting like she ain’t checking a brotha who got his act together. Nowadays, I go to Starbucks, I go to small music venues where you may see groups like Slum Village performing or go to an EDM show where the music is more energetic uplifting and positive-orientated in terms of experience. I change where I go for lunch and where I shop and visit to be in an environment away from loudmouth pork-eating stuck up African-American females embarrassing our people. As a result, I’m meeting more and more global women who actually like what I like and working on their startup over a cup of Pike’s Place coffee. In addition and most important – I removed race-loyalty relationship from my mindset and this is the best dating decision I ever made in my life. Changed My Presentation. After the Afro-European and Hyde Park (Chicago) chick showed me the path, I now focus more on dressing casual professional and carrying myself in a manner that show I’m a proud progressive black man, father and uncle and have a major plan in the work for my life to take care of me and my family and creating a world for my upcoming wife. What I saw immediately happen is the trifling African-American sistas are now avoiding me and I literally do not see them anymore and I don’t care to see them either and I’m happy as hell about that – bye Felicia! I forgot all about them and what is good is they removed their own trifling negative judgmental behinds out of my life by themselves – all I did is changed my presentation to show I’m about something and looking forward and proud of me and where I’m going in life. So what I’m explaining to you brothas is I simply removed negative “noise” out of my life and created space for the positive elements to enter my life and that is how it played out. I’m now meeting quality sistas from all cultures and backgrounds and so damn happy right now because I’m exactly where I need to be in life. I’m actually meeting quality global women who giving me something to look forward to in additional to my professional goals and what I want out of life. When we meet the right kind of sista, what are we willing to do for her? Earlier in life when I came across the right sista, the first thing I did was see what she was into. If she was into running, I’m at the store buying running shoes. If she was into shopping, I’m all in the fashion blogs and whatever she is digging, I’m digging. She will notice I’m trying to be cheesy trying to get around her but at the same time, she going to notice I’m bringing nothing but A-game to the table because I want to be the best man possible for my future wife and our family. Here are things you brothas should immediately do when you start meeting the right kind of sistas. Clean Up the Image. It’s time to get rid of the rouge image and focus on being a quality well-rounded brotha. Don’t fall for that “rough edge” crap because only self-hating African-American females buy into bragging about dating rappers and drug dealers and knuckleheads and pimp preachers. It’s time to re-image the social media profiles, change up the dress code, wear good smelling cologne and regular grooming and personal care, including getting nails done and taking mannerism courses. Also a good woman should immediately make a brotha give up negative vices like drinking and strip clubs and shooting dice with the street cats. It also pays to hire a fashion consultant to dress you up right and you be surprised what you can buy at Goodwill nowadays. Get The Empire Up. Don’t think “empire” mean starting or running a business. Being passionate about your career and becoming a subject matter expert is an “empire state of mind” as talent is your trademark of an empire. A good music artist and a good athlete like Floyd Mayweather fighting skills are an empire within themselves so always remember to focus on your talent and passion, not show and tell. Podcast or blog about your industry and trends and speak on it and invite her to your functions and write e-books and let her know you hustle like Steve Harvey out in this world so you can be just like Steve Harvey when you grow up. Get the Life Skills Up. This means learning how to cook at a cooking school and take her with you – but you go first to learn skills to impress her. Learn to make summer salad blends and winter comfort food as well as canning and other man stuff like fileting and steaking salmon cuts. Also learn how to select wine and also learn how to arrange flowers and take photos of flowers for her to send to her while other guys send her “damn you fine!” Kevin Hart memes on Facebook. Get the Getaway Skills Up. Find you a nice spot in this world like a bed and breakfast in Granada, Nicaragua or Pacifica, California that you are familiar with and can take her there on an excursion. Learn to book tickets in advance for the football and basketball games and even soccer just to be curious or the hockey game. Also learn to book tickets for concerts and plays in advance and surprise her with those also especially what she likes. Groupon and gift certificates are great conversation starters also but the best is walks in the parks and along the beach and watching sunsets and sunrises, remember that. But the number one thing for you brothas to get is purpose – does she gives you purpose and a reason to be something greater than what you are right now? Imagine you were in Afghanistan fighting the Taliban and you just ordered a 1,000lb JDAM drop on a location where the fire is coming from and as you hunker down, you pull out a picture of the girl you got back at home. Do you want that picture to be of some ghetto or awkward African-American female who watch Scandal or Empire or rant about feminist crap while you up in Afghanistan sitting in a warzone? Or do you want that picture to be of a woman that give you hope and faith and something to try to come back home to and promise you will marry her if you can make it out of this alive? That woman you want in your life have to give you purpose and a reason to be a greater man that you are right now. As for me, now that I removed the negative African-American females out of my life who been trying to discount a good brotha and now that I made space for high quality global sistas from around the world come into the landscape, I do have a purpose to be a greater man that what I’m trying to do for self. I’m now accelerating all of my business, I’m going to launch Global Urban Collective on a more global scale and I’m getting my connects up around the world so I got destinations to attend and I’m going back to cooking school and watching wine-related videos on YouTube. And I hired a dude here in Atlanta teaching me how to dress and present myself professionally for the ladies and business. Brothas, a good woman can make a good brotha greater – go out and make room for her and prepare to change your life to make space for her to help you find the purpose and motivation you are looking for.