Brothas in America deteriorated so rapidly from self-inflicted damage and have no one to blame but themselves. It was known for years social media was a destructive weapon that can turn a person against themselves – just give social media to fools and sit back and watch what they do with it. The current generation of Black men used social media in such a self-destructive way, we could be looking at an unrecoverable scenario as others swoop in and take from these brothas and leave the brothas permanently marginalized.

Brothas want to talk all the time they were the first Black to do this and do that in the 21st century but they are actually in the Black History books for one thing. The Black men today are the first generation where their own Black women vocally don’t want anything to do with him and are vocally expressing “divestment” and “swirling” against these brothas. She is even talking about moving to Mexico and enjoying the rest of her life away from these brothas. This is testimony to how failed the current generation of Black dudes are today we are ashamed to even call Black men with a straight face because we all know they are not the standard bearer of Black men.

First, it was the degradation culture of his own Black women – talking down on her, listening to music that degrade Black women, not preparing himself as a man for his woman, walking out on the woman and the kids he made with her. These brothas did all of that and acted like there would not be any retribution or repercussions for his actions against how he did his own sista.

Second, these brothas chose to be fuckboys and proudly carried themselves in that manner. They over texting in comment sections talking to other dudes following the likes of Boyce Watkins, Po-lite, Umar Johnson, Tariq Nasheed, and Jason Black laughing and boasting like they secretly want to go see Lil Nas X in concert or watch Tom Swift on the CW but acting like they hard men. Yeah, they were hard all right, hard for each other. That’s some homoerotic stuff, a bunch of dudes chatting and talking to each other like that. They love to hide behind sports and other macho stuff like Brokeback Mountain.  They brag they got money to other brothas, they try to make other brothas agree to hate women, hate Black women because they setting it all up where they want each other dicks because they love the company of other men while pretending, they standing for Black manhood.

Third and this is the most important – they didn’t invest in themselves or built themselves up to have the skills and talent to hold down their communities in the 21st century. They over there doing antiquated hustles like selling on physical corners while others are selling via the blockchain. They lie about their pockets and watch other people's pockets too much talking about net worth too much. All these brothas had to do was sit on their behind and learn some 21st-century skills but instead, they acted like all they should do is fake it till they make it and be a poser instead of someone solid and can build for real out here. We out here first class international, 5-star resorts, and guess what – I don’t see all these fake ass brothas in the real spaces out here where real money, power, and respect are holding it down.

End of the day, these brothas are losers and a failure – they can pretend whatever they want. They don’t have their communities anymore. You cannot go get gas to fill up your car in the hood and not worried about getting shot because these Black men lost control of their communities. Their women their age is traveling to meet and greet non-Black men because she and her girlfriends talk about how they don’t want to date these lame brothas. I see it all the time when I’m out and see a well-off sista who doesn’t act stuck-up towards these young brothas, she looks like she is respectively turned off by these pathetic brothas altogether and she keeps it moving with her head facing forward, hiding her disappointment in her own brothas. These brothas are failures and what I see is more of a sausage party where too many brothas are hanging out and only got a few dingbat sistas to pick from those who are stupid to still hang out with these losers.

These brothas can turn themselves around if they want. But that is the thing – they got to want to and they got to need to. These brothas need that moment where they leave that crappy job and sit in the car knowing his paycheck is light but the bills are too heavy and there is no room for growth and he is stuck and trapped. Then he got to realize he was following punk shit like charlatans on YouTube talking up worthless nonsense and he chatting with other Black men in the comment section like he was bi-curious, typing lol to another man in a chat session – yeah, he knows that ain’t what a real man does. He got to realize how he got to this state of worthlessness and marginalization and realize 99% of his current state was because of the choices he made to carry himself like a punk ass b*tch instead of move like a real man and master of his domain.

The first thing that brotha got to do is disown all his choices. He should have spent his time building with his woman and cultivating his children instead of logging on social media to nod his head listening to whatever bullshit Umar Johnson was talking about that didn’t put food on that brotha table, but that dumb ass broke brotha nodding his head listening and wasting his time on unproductive content. He needs to focus on switching to real content by real experts and realize the only difference was his dumbass chose the dumb shit and that’s why all he got in this is dumb prizes to show for.

The second thing he needs to do is learn how real money is made. He was supposed to be a strong brotha and a smart brotha but we got Asian and Indian brothas coming in and becoming wealthy in a generation because they are not flashy and moving in concentrated areas and pooling their resources together. How many times have you heard a Black man say that’s what other races are doing and we are still in 2022 with other groups prospering while brothas are broke and lying - if brothas were rich, brothas wouldn’t have to worry about getting shot at the gas station. I don’t see Asians and Indians worried about getting shot at the gas station in their communities because they really got money and dough. Learn the technology stuff, learn the supply chain stuff and learn everything that is core to the American system to build an empire-grade business model like a real man should, not some lame shit like a subscription razor blade service for Black men like that one egg-headed clown.

Third, treat his children as if he dead to them. That means he gives his life to his future generation to pass on his legacy and give them a better world than he has for himself. He makes himself a better man to provide for his children, educate and guide his children and make himself an example for his children to be proud of him as their daddy and grow up loving their daddy. He stops being a bitch walking out on his kids, leaving his kids emotionally neglected and scarred and damaging the only thing he got in this world that matters - his kids. He have a come to Jesus moment and realizes he was put on this world to do was to raise the future version of himself after he is dead to leave a legacy.

Everything these brothas did to put themselves in the position they are today is the result of that brotha's decision to carry himself like a weak ass punk instead of a real Black man. You can go to any of those charlatans' YouTube live streams or Instagram live streams and look at these bitch-ass comments written by brothas who are supposed to be operating as Black men out here. But the reality is we know they are not at the job making the real money, they doing that lightweight pay stuff and they are at a factory doing thankless work that doesn’t pay enough for the bills and the kind of lifestyle they think he deserves to have – all because his stupid ass wants to text-type about Po-Lite or whatever that shit is.

Brotha – look at yourself and how everything around you is fucked up because you fucked up everything around you. Your own sista doesn’t even want anything to do with you like that and she wants to move to Mexico far away from you, that’s all we need to know how bad you messed up everything doing all that stupid shit you have done as a brotha. Take control of your damn life and realize you being in control is a lot more power than listening to some damn lightweight fool running their mouth on YouTube and you chatting with other men like you are bi-curious or something. I mean if you are bi-curious, go stand in line to buy Lil Nas X tickets and grind close on the other brotha standing in front of you to see if he is going to give you some play; if that’s you about then go and do you.

But you other brothas who are an embarrassment to all of us; got to lie about your pockets when the rest of us about that shit for real, then you go to bed tonight and swear on your life this is the last night you going to be a punk bitch ass brotha and wake up in the morning and reset the game clock and start focusing on being a real man to yourself, your woman and your family and your community at large.