When Malcolm X was a single young man, he may have said there are no women on the planet disrespecting good Black men more than the Black woman. She sold out the father of her babies for some government cheese blocks and public housing units in the 1970s. In the 1980s she sold out the good brothas for the drug dealers riding around in Chevy Blazers and wearing Fila tennis shoes. In the 1990s, she sold out the professional class brothas for the knuckleheads with Timberlands, no job and still living in their momma house. This history of disrespecting the good brothas, the real brothas goes on to this day.

A New Era of Discovery

However, something happened and this manifested around 2003 – 2005. Brothas began to travel professionally and leisurely started to see incoming women from the Middle East, Latin America, South America, Asia, Europe who had bodies just as bad (if not better) than the sistas he was led to believe was the only thick sistas with curves on the planet. Because back then, we brothas believed only sistas from Bama and Mississippi were banging like that. But we realized there are sistas that are built like that from all around the world. But it wasn’t the bodies that changed the game for brothas, it was something else.

We discovered these curvy, smiling foreign women we looking at with amazement and was smiling and glowing at us, something we have never seen before from our own sistas. These ladies approached us with a good attitude, were friendly, want to sit down and talk to a brotha and we are like stunned that a beautiful woman would approach us after growing up around the standoffish sistas who acted like her body was a temple for dudes to fight and kill each other over. Nah, we brothas discovered we had global options and that every good Black man can find his own out here in the world instead of fighting and putting up with the nonsense and disrespect.

You and I know the first thing a sista is going to say is we good brothas just some sellouts and want to date outside of our race and this is the paragraph that is going to respond with the big LOL. Because the biggest shock was the Afro-European sistas, the Afro-Latina sistas, and the Brown Asian sistas the good brothas were running into who were also showing us the special treatment that we never thought existed growing up in the African-American ADOS dating scene. Didn’t know they built them like that in Amsterdam and I ran into some Brown Asians from Thailand with Portuguese-gifted bodies that made me bite my fist in my mouth. 

The era of enlightenment has begun – a good Black man in America has now realized he is the most respected by these fine ladies around the world. In the early 2000s brothas who work at airline companies like Delta here in Atlanta started going to Brazil and quietly kept to themselves they found the Shangri-La of women who treat an American brotha right and a nice place to settle down and have a woman and children. More and more good brothas are coming back with stories they don’t have to put up with the negativity and disrespect within our community and there are better options out there.

But we have a major void – the good brothas do not have a proper matchmaking platform to help connect him to these global options he can pursue. First of all, that Latin Euro website is some BS and some straight garbage – fuzzy photos and talking about paying for letters. Second, Black dating sites are forcing a narrow dogma that Black men have to seek Black women as the only option on the table. We don’t need Black Singles, we need a platform for Black men to find the woman that he truly wants to be with.

I also left out one more aspect and that is Kevin Samuels and his operations of coaching these low-value sistas in finding a high-value Black man. Brother Kevin can coach these sistas until the cows come home – we don’t want them, bro. We are tired of the American sistas and what she has done to good Black men. True high-value brothas got global options to fly in Dubai and drive the rental Jeep Wrangler to the apartment unit he shares with a rich Middle Eastern woman from Turkey he met while on an IT project in Spain.

And that brotha gets real love in Dubai, he doesn’t get smeared with fecal matter for $2500 in Dubai like the sistas go there and do. I noticed Kevin Samuels doesn’t even talk on this level but Kevin claiming he knows the high-value brothas out in this world – you still think we want those low-value disrespectful sloppy seconds that call up your show Kevin Samuels, I’m asking a question.

With all that commentary I just put out, let’s move on with the brothas and let’s talk about the proposed solution. We are going to create a relationship platform that centers around good Black men including the women who are interested in good Black men and trust me they are out there.

Requirement: Good Black Man Should Have a Mixing Board and Music Collection

It is a lot of exotics and unique women around the world, especially in a modern urban global society. With that said, one thing a good brotha better have is a music collection with a mixing board so his international chick can play music and dance the night away, an experience we don’t get here in America from these sistas. If you don’t have a music room, you can always go to a listening room that exists around the world in major cities and is a fun experience.

This is a video of a lady in Copenhagen playing Brazilian Samba music – please enjoy and keep it for your collection as you study or want to relax with a drink. Let’s talk about the platform.

Black Man Relationship Platform

Let’s get something out the way – this site is for what Black men want. This is about his preference and how he wants to move forward. This whole racist stuff we have to date our own has nothing to do with that individual brotha. What a brotha want and better want is a relationship with positive economics and family-orientated, meaning help increase household income and assets and raise their kids the best way possible – ain’t nobody giving two cents about some Black nationalist telling us the racist doctrine of who we should date when the other side is acting stank.

Qualified Black Men Only. We are going to seriously vet Black men and he going to have to show the financials. If he has a problem with that, that faking broke brotha can go f*ck off somewhere because we only deal with qualified and vetted brothas – too many brothas be lying about their pockets out here over the Internet and posing. He going to need a passport and sign affidavits he is not a deadbeat dad and he has the financial means to support the woman he wants to pursue a serious relationship with. We not playing any hide behind alias Internet type of bum brothas out here. I already know the real money brothas out here and know we will have a nice qualified clientele. Any dude hiding behind an alias ain’t a grown man facing the real world and not worth any woman's time and space.

Established International Women Only. We are not going to bring to a good Black man some slum-village chick in a third-world country. We are going to be vetting the women around the world as well. She has to be everything from a professional working woman with a good job as well. If she is going to be a wife, she needs to come from a credible established family line. Brothas need a partner to navigate a global landscape. Now when it comes to African-American women, she going to be vetted the same way, she comes from good family background and she better has a good career as well. That’s the problem with these Black dating sites, you run into sistas with bad family backgrounds and not vetted because she sticking her butt out in photos and dumb brothas waste their time on her.

No Flat Butts and Feminists. We will not be boarding any chicks with a flat behind because no Black man wants to hump on an ironing board. Brothas know what brothas physically want out of a woman and we going to make sure a brotha sees a woman that he wants both pleasure and partnership. Also, we are going to look for women that want to eventually marry and raise a family together and take care of each other parents and such. No Mohawk mullet women who talk about hear her feminist roar and want to compete with a man on who wears the pants – no one got time for that negative energy either. We are going to vet only women who can provide a wonderful experience for a Black man to work for and come home to. Religious and family-orientated and fun to be with.

Let’s talk about how the platform will work but as I said, the brothas should be looking for “fun girls” that we really don’t have within our African-American ADOS community. We want the type of woman that will get on the mixing board in the music room and play some Latin music and dance for you to make you feel happy to be around her.

With that said, check out this video of a lady from Hong Kong playing Colombian salsa music – what an eclectic mix and taste.

Let’s talk features of the platform.

Platform Features

 Fintech/ID Qualification Technology. We will be using technology that will check credit scores and also access read-only information to financial records to see if brothas are qualified. The best outcome is for a faking broke brotha to run from our platform after seeing this information is asked – that means the only brothas that we will be representing are true real brothas who meet the qualifications to meet the kind of high-caliber women around the globe we want to perform matchmaking for.

Profile Trading Cards. These are profile cards of both brothas and the women on the platform. Each brotha and sistas will be able to sort through cards and see who they are interested in. A match is when a brotha expresses interest in a profile and that woman will express interest and we will see a potential match. We will provide metrics such as help a brotha understand what women from what country is into him the most, how many women are on the platform, and what attributes they like about a brotha and help the brotha gain insight about the profiles he prefers. We will be using facial/body recognition technology where we can recommend women who look similar to a brotha pattern of preference.

Matchmaking Meetups. We will host the matchup as this is the most critical part. While video conferencing will be there as the first step, we will also be there to arrange the physical meetup as an agent for both parties. Remember, both parties are paying us so we will have an agent for the brotha as well as an agent for the woman and we will be present during the first initial meeting. I will not go into detail about the meeting but will say this is an international endeavor and international cities are in play. Again, we talking about high-value brothas and qualified women as well.

Cooldown Period. Many dating sites allow one person to play games with 100 people interested in them at the same time – scamming all of them. We will not allow this behavior. We will restrict a user's ability to select a limited number of profiles and they will have to choose only one to proceed further. Once they proceed if it does not work out, they have to wait a period of time before contacting someone else and getting back on the market. So brothas better choose wisely when they want to move further on someone and the women are going to have the same rules applied so no one is scamming and serious about engaging in matchmaking.

Moving Forward

This platform will be rolled out using our Toshikiso platform and leverage our global gateways to engage with women all around the world. I cannot promise our service will be limited to Black men as we expand worldwide to other single men looking for their preference. But we are going to focus on Black men because I’m a Black man and know personally what my good brothas are going through. I also know I will never be on a platform like Black Singles where it seems they try to force a racist dogma of Black people should only date Black people because that is shallow and not how relationships should be formed.

Our platform is different because we vetting both the brothas to be qualified Black men and we vetting the women to make sure they are not cheap poverty chicks looking for a come-up. Instead, we looking for working-class, talented global women who desire to have an American Black man she can move to the United States or he can move to Dubai or Bogota with her. The days of meeting slum chicks are over – there is a new middle-class grade of women out here for brothas to take a second look.

I don’t care what the Black community thinks, I care about that good brotha who knows what he has as preference.  In 2022, he going to want a woman that contributes income and value to his household and she looks good and they both can work together to raise a family, save up an investment portfolio and start a business or practice together as a couple – not her wanting to go eat at Olive Garden or Red Lobster and always want to get her hair done and watch negative TV shows that emasculate Black men for comic relief.

We will announce real soon and this is just another example of how we can quickly release applications, platforms, and solutions off our Toshikiso platform with global scalability and digital-first workflows. We going to be pushing out more and more similar offerings and we just getting started with creating real solutions for our people on their personal journeys.