I’m on the global scene, brotha – you better figure that out while you out here following clowns on YouTube telling you a bunch of nonsense that don’t matter to the big picture.

In Tokyo several years ago, I mentioned that I was at Mos Café in Ginza and this hyper-thick Afro-Swedish walked in the café while I was sitting there programming. We talked for a minute and she was quality but she was with her mother and I was polite to her as well. I never forgot that waist-to-hip ratio she had in those light blue jeans. She looked 99% like Kimberly Locke but she had a Swede accent.

In Tokyo, this summer in 2024, I was on the train going south to a small Japanese town and this lady and her sistas got on the train. She was the most beautiful woman I saw in my life. To you, the best I would say she resembled would be Francesca Amiker but this lady was wearing Islamic attire and I knew she was likely from Northeast Africa - I was guessing Djibouti or Yemen. She had this beautiful smile and eyes and was glowing with femineity.

When we got off the train at the station, I asked her where she was from and she told me she was from Sweden and her sister was from London and they are having a summer vacation in Japan. She knew what I meant but maybe she was born and raised in Sweden. I’m going to say what a real man feels in 15 seconds of meeting a woman – this is wife material.

Brotha, this is the second time I met a high-quality, highly-fine Afro-Swedish chick in Japan. I met one a long time ago while in college and she was biracial half-Ethiopian and half-White and she liked me for some reason but I treated her like a little sister. But I realize this is the third time God put a fine Afro-Swedish woman in my life and he is telling me something about where I should be looking for my woman, my wife.

The point of this story and I want you young brothas to understand me fully as a grown man talking to you – you build yourself up as a brotha and she will be there and she will be the right one for you.

The current state of Black relationships is a toxic burn pit in Iraq. This has been the accumulation of both toxic Black masculinity and toxic Black feminism eroding what was once pure Black love. We have Black women here who want to tear down a Black man trying to rise up, then want to take from him when he rise up and become a high-value asset. This self-hatred has been going on in our community and we see these garbage reality TV, Tyler Perry movies, and these so-called Black relationship experts talking out of their car seat on social media. Kevin Samuels was part of that garbage mess as well.

I want to make something clear – all a brotha is doing in America is “monster dating” and you brothas are messing around with something that is not good for you or your purpose. A lot of us brothas been told some BS about getting with these sistas and ignoring the garbage stuff these American sistas be on towards an American brotha.

 I want you to engage in SYSBM and MGTOW by focusing on building up your manhood for that real woman that is waiting for you down the line. I’m going to be 100% and this is the conclusion I had to accept – my true wife and helpmate is not in the American Black community. These sistas have completely turned me off and I don’t give a care about “not all of them” because I seen enough to turn me off.  A lot of brothas feel that way as well.

Here is what I want you brothas to do. The first and foremost, you better not buy a Range Rover HSE. We know the only dumb reason for a brotha to buy a Range Rover HSE for $120k is to impress some American chick that isn’t worth impressing, for real. There is not a damn woman in America worth impressing with a Range Rover HSE – you use that $120k or those monthly payments to invest in yourself instead.

That’s the second part – you sit at home, work and study hard, save your money and build up your goals. You stash your paycheck and other earnings instead of dating and secure yourself. You will over time, appreciate what I said when you see money that you may wasted on a goofy manipulative negative sista still sitting with you and increasing over time – trust me brotha, taking care of yourself is the best satisfying feeling in the world.

Third and this is why I told you about the Afro-Swedish ladies that both were fine, thick, feminine, and wife material. You think you see fine sistas in America and put up with her stank attitude – nah bro. You ain’t met fine sistas until you get out of the United States and travel. You will see women that will make you find out what actual wife material look like that was meant for you all along, brotha. I'm not meeting cute girls out the country - I'm meeting women internationally that are wife material and that is exactly where the relationship is established on Day 1, is this my wife or I'm her husband - not the lightweight dating stuff. Get your passport and your coins up and start traveling.

Put yourself where the global action is – Dubai, Tokyo, Seoul, London, Bali because that is also where the high-quality women from all around the world is at as well. But you got to be on some Idris Elba class-level handling your own thing, brotha.

But in America – don’t date here in America anymore. Dating is a waste of your time and your money. These sistas are gone, they chose to become monsters against Black men. You need a woman that you can look at and stop compromising like settling for these baby mommas who got feminist girlfriends who hate brothas except Pookies or she enjoy Tyler Perry garbage brotha-hating movies. Just give it up, the environment is not worth it.

Let’s start the real conversation on how to build up as a man to where you established in your standing and prepared to have the kind of woman you deserve to have in your life. But for now, walk right by these sistas in America, stop settling, save your coins, and prepare for the real journey ahead.