Sistas are going to learn the hard way on this one. I am learning that sistas are on TikTok running their mouths about going to nightclubs in Tokyo like that is a flex. Sista, you are being set up and it’s all a trap.

The US State Department long had a travel advisory for decades going to clubs in Japan is very dangerous because you are letting your guard down with all of the Japan glazing some of yall be doing. Oh, Japan is so safe! The Japanese people are so polite! Arrigato! Arrigato!

See, this is the result of sistas booking trips to Japan on Expedia using an Affirm buy-now-pay-later payment plans. They don’t research what to do in Japan, they just saw a Meegan the Stallion video of her in Japan, and they start glazing. And what a sista do is go on TikTok and listen to other losers like her talk and be telling her what to do like go to a nightclub.

I had to tell one of these sistas who did this nonsense – if she is flying 14-20 hours on a plane to arrive in Japan, and if she even thought about going to a nightclub – she is a loser in life and she is her biggest problem she is facing right now. Brothas and sistas – if you ever hear of any sista said she went to Japan and went to a nightclub, cut and run from that chick and stay away from her forever.

Think about how messed up in the head this all sound just on the mindset alone. First, she brought her goofy mindset of clubbing in America as part of her itinerary in a place like Japan and Tokyo. That tells you she ain’t going to change and adapt and discover but she is going to stay stuck in her stupid ways. I’m hearing Black expats are moving to Thailand with that mindset and getting messed up as well.

Second, she doesn’t know how to plan and manage her coins – that the part you brothas better notice. If you do the math of how much it cost to fly and lodge in Japan and have spending money – it will probably factor out to $30 to $50 per hour on the duration of the entire trip. She decided on all things, is going to spend 2-3 hours in a club which is probably around over $100 to $200 then she still got to pay entrance fee and buy drinks and stuff. She is just a waste of time and money.

Third, and this is the most important we will dig into – she does not understand situational awareness. She did not do any research about nightclubs in Japan that are not safe at all, especially for women. She did not discover or research some gem or special space to find and discover like spend the night over in Kamakura. She just said – let me go to a nightclub in her little-brain decision making.

Brothas and sistas, these kinds of small-minded people need to be out of your aura and space when you got your passport and start moving around the world. I rather you travel solo than be around these kind of clown ass sistas, for real. Japan is safe enough to travel and have an excellent experience, but the minute you start hanging out at seedy spaces like nightclub in Japan, that’s when the dark side take over.

I have a question for the sistas who go around these Tokyo club areas at 5am or 6am in the morning. Have you ever seen a random Japanese woman crying on the streets hysterical – it’s a common sight and you are lying about being in Japan if you haven’t seen it. She is screaming and crying, and men pick her up and take her inside or they walk with her to the nearest subway station as she screaming and hysterical.

I asked you a question sista – what do you think happened to her that night before? Yeah, you thought right. That’s the real story when it comes to women in Japan. And I seen plenty of African women in Japan lately doing the same thing. Now here comes the goofy Black American sistas smiling talking about she is going clubbing in Roppongi like a broken record she never played before.

Here is where you sistas messing up in your mindset about Japan and nightclubbing. It ain’t going to be the Japanese – it’s going to be African dudes, Southeast Asian dudes, Indian dudes all behind the scenes of these spots. And they will spike your drink. They can pull you in a backroom somewhere and gang train a chick, then dump a chick out in the back alley. Most of them are not on paper and recruited by organized crime and can get away with what they just done to a sista.

It’s not the Japanese you worry about when traveling or becoming an expat – it’s those other foreigners and people from your country who plotting on you sistas. Nigerian shady cats and Indian shady cats who got that look in their eye like they despise you for being a Black American. Then you got the White dudes who look at you sistas as easy inferior Black meat they can get their rocks off. Take a step back and see how the White dudes treat African women at these spaces, go ahead.

I actually believe the word about nightclubbing in Japan did not originate from any American because we know there is no real nightclubbing in Japan and we do real things with our Japanese friends for social hour. I believe it’s Africans and other groups pretending to be a fellow sista luring you in on social media to these places in Tokyo because you never ever heard a real Black woman based in Japan recommend any of these spots and never heard a real brotha in Japan ever mention going nightclubbing in Japan, never.

I’m going to give you sistas just this bit of advice you better pay attention to when traveling in Japan – if there are no Japanese women around, don’t go there because the Japanese women know a lot more than you and you better catch a clue.

It is completely foolish to go to a country like Japan and do goofy stuff you did back in America. Get off the beaten path, discover something new that you did not do back in America.

People come back mind blown doing and seeing stuff they did not do back at home. But when you try to do familiar things that were garbage like going out to a nightclub, then you get yourself into a very bad situation and experience and still got to pay off that Affirm balance when you come back.