Let’s be frank – the sistas made a foolish gamble and lost big time. The failure was decades in the making of bad, selfish decisions based on emotions instead of long-term strategy and thinking. The sad part is the sistas didn’t realize she was being plotted against by the very same people she chose to align with and alienated her own core.

How Did She Get Here?

We kinda all know the history here and probably need to spell it out in a book but let’s just remind how the sistas got to this juncture.

Margaret Sanger and Planned Parenthood. This was the first post-slavery action where Black women was the target of the abortion practice billed as “women freedom” 100 years ago. However, the real intention was racist, the women like Ms. Sanger and “Planned Parenthood” wanted to wipe out the Black population in America through abortions. But sistas still went along with this practice and experimented with birth controls that caused cervical and breast cancer.

The Black Church. The women showed up to Black churches and kept showing up to Black churches and validating a system that was oppressing them and operating as a gatekeeper and blocker. The Black church was rooted in the slave master system of keeping Blacks in control through whitewashed religion with pics of a White Jesus in Mama Jenkins home. These churches are filled with scumbag Black men who use the word of God as an emotional weapon but sexually pursuing the women attendees, including grooming the young girls for sex and teen marriage. Black women still sit there wondering why real men don’t attend church to this day…to this day!

Government Social Programs. When it came to providing government assistance, Black women were the only group targeted with this one condition – she had to give up her Black man in exchange for government handouts. This happened exactly after Black men and women fought together in the Civil Rights Movement. Democrat racists used government welfare to divide Black women and Black men and Black women chosen the government cheese and public housing. This was the biggest act of betrayal in history and no other race, including African women has taken a step to betray her man like American Black women.

Note: It is important to point out this is the era Black women switched from “women rights” abortions to having multiple babies by low-quality Black men to increase their welfare check and food stamps based on the number of children they have to raise.

Race/Gender Meritocracy. One of the post-Civil Rights actions was dealing with White Privilege setting up barriers to integration through school admissions and hiring to help Black people advance or participate in the greater society. It was obvious affirmative-action had to be enacted to ensure Blacks can get jobs, contracts, attend schools back then. But the powers that be did something to turn the tables – they approached Black women. They recruited Black women to serve as the race/gender box check and feminists joined in to tell her don’t spend her money on her man. In most cases, we saw White men dating/marrying Black women and use her as a sellout and placed her in those affirmative action position. This is what White Jewish men has been doing with Asian women at CBS news – look at the husband of all the Asian women at CBS news.

Note: In Africa, they did the same thing with microfinance to poor African women, but those women gave the money to empower her man as head of household, and the white feminists stopped microfinance in Africa as a result.

I Don’t Need a Man! This one has an ironic twist. The Black women were socially manipulated by the free government programs and affirmative action and DEI to not support Black men. Sistas do not have any industry on lockdown, not even her own beauty care industry, Koreans run that and the Korean women work with her Korean man to dominate the Black beauty industry. Sistas started getting high-horse talking about she smarter and make more money than Black men, engaged in competition with her Black man. But Black men working in Long Beach, California as a longshoreman was making more than executive-grade salary but sistas was swearing up and down she was the top breadwinner in the Black community when she got it all from government and DEI on a symbolic and non-merit basis.

The Fallout

Now that we listed the background and the decisions these sistas made, it should be obvious none of this had long-term favor for the sistas. The sistas were being used and she played herself. But there was something underlying that is not discussed.

Health Issues. Sistas were being experimented by the feminists with birth control and abortions and as stated earlier, had mental and physical side effects. For example, no one told yall when a woman has an abortion, even at 3 months, her body still operate for the next 9 months as if she is still pregnant, that takes a mental toll she has to try to pretend but her body isn’t pretending. Cancers from experimental birth control devices and pills. But the biggest is mental health that is directly tied to sexual promiscuity – dating and having sex with garbage men or random has a mental toll and there is no such thing as sexual freedom – mating is a reproduction process with a mated pair, the degenerate sex stuff is what takes people down a bad road in life.  

Dependency Issues. This is the rug being placed under sistas, then pulled from under her. We saw and observe that sistas are placed in these positions, but cannot hire other sistas or brothas and just placed there as a token for government compliance to get a roadwork job or government contract bid. But let’s just be honest – we already know how the sistas betrayed her own people and talk a bunch on Black men stating we inferior when Black men had solid trade jobs and business operations and ran Ebony magazine and Soft Sheen, Carsons, Bronner Bros that Black men built and earned on their own. What we saw during the 2001 and 2008 and 2020 recessions is the sistas were exposed as fakes and frauds because their sponsors pulled the rug underneath them. First to be laid off, first to close their shops, first to lose their home and lifestyle from spending and not saving. She never had her own thing; she was dependent on social programs to prop her up all this time. Now DEI in 2025 is showing once again, sistas did not build anything but relied on Target and Dollar General to claim she a boss chick.

Competition. The sistas should have expected but did not that there are billions of other women out there who can easily replace her. All you have to do is look at Great Britain where Caribbean and native UK Blacks had a foothold but was quickly replaced by Indian, Middle Eastern, and East European, and Asians who came from other parts of the Commonwealth. Sistas was full of herself until she found out her job was being outsourced to India and the Philippines – easy to replace. She thought she was the boss chick until she learned about that Latina woman or Asian woman running a global enterprise supported by her husband, her dad, and her sons. Now sistas is seeing a new trend – Passport Bros where high-value Black men are leaving sistas in droves to be with other women around the world, showing the ultimate diss against the sistas ever in human history.

Deal With the Situation

The sistas can howl all they want about the Black men dating out or becoming Passport Bros are loser, doesn’t mean anything and no one cares what she got to say or think. The sistas have a long resume of being self-serving and betraying her own man – no other race is going to respect her and she have no allies due to this level of non-loyalty to her own man and her people.

Sistas are learning all that money she made selling herself out means nothing because no one respect her money and quite frankly, no one needs her money. No one in Latin America, Africa, or the rest of the global South need a dime from American Black women. Europe and Asia don’t need her chump change either. So all she can do with her money is conspicuous consumption as a docile consumer.

Let me give an example – do you know overseas, they recruit Black American men for entertainment, sports, business, technology, cultural and more? But do you really see them recruiting Black women? No, because they replaced the sista with one of their own to rise and shine around the world. Sistas not in demand, she just propped up and that’s what is falling down like dominos, everybody is out to replace her, including within the Democratic Party.

So with this landscape and fallout, let’s get to solutions and what a sista can really do to get out of this situation. We do not want to see the good sistas fall into a trap and I already set the boundaries. We are going to have a real convo for the sistas to help navigate during this moment of crisis.

First, sistas need to get into technical trades and learn core skills. Sistas are becoming truck drivers for example. Sistas have to learn how to code and program AI. East European, Asian and Indian women have these skills and able to hold things down. Get out of the BS jobs and get into real solid jobs that are more resilient in a bad economy. I seen too many sistas lose their BS DEI jobs and have no path to recovery.

Second, sistas need to quickly separate herself from garbage sistas and their feminist BS. Do everything in your power to become a “pick me” to the Black men as brothas are a better investment than any sista all day, to this day…to this day! Black women date/marry these goofy brothas and try to make herself appear as the breadwinner but a solid Black man and Black women running a church with him as the flock leader and her as the preacher wife show the real dynamics of a Black power couple. Find and get with a quality brotha and you had to do this back in college to build up with them.

Third is move. The landscape is toxic and trying to pull you down as a sista that want to get somewhere. They don’t want to see a real sista make it, they want a sista to be miserable and complaining about men. Get yourself into an environment like Dubai where you around more based sistas trying to make something happen in this world and get you the connects to other markets in Europe and Asia to build big global empires. They want you lightweight in America just hating on Black men in a bitter sisterhood.

Fourth and most important – divest from Black media where a garbage ass Steve Harvey trying to tell you how to talk to us real Black men but also telling you to vote for Kamala Harris. He is a clown and comedian and that is his career profession. Or the chitterling circuit confused man Tyler Perry and his movies trying to find emotional weakness in women and end his movie with showing Black men as villains or the pandering simp. There are more Black men like Jaxn and others clowns like this you sistas need to cut away from. There are also toxic Black women, many not from America telling you to hate American Black men. You should not have gone deep in this rabbit hole in the first place. Focus on media that empowers you and enhance you and your life.  

If You Want Change, Then Change Your Mind

This whole path sistas are headed is towards destruction. There is nothing good about the direction sistas is going.  Once she lost her man to the Passport Bro moving, filling up planes to see other women – she lost the battle.

I don’t care about any damn sista that was born before 1985, she created this situation and whatever fallout she got from participating in this action, she deserves it and have to sleep in the bed she made.

The rest of you sistas, I don’t believe you deserve this path and direction and I’m appealing you to move different before it’s too late. Reject this bitter sisterhood that depended on the White racist systems to validate her and pit her against Black men and the Black community. That is a dead end, jump off that runaway train on fire.

You have the opportunity to find a new tribe, a new life, new lands to thrive and find yourself and your real purpose. Focus on returning to that base. Join me and the rest of the real brothas and real sistas who are moving up and around this world - leave this America garbage all alone and change.  You see the layoffs, evictions, homelessness, mental health crisis with Black women – change up while you have the chance right now.

And you going to have to change in this new landscape. Stop suffering and being miserable and hopeless – start the change by first changing your mind and move different. We are waiting for you sista, come and join the rest of us.