I always cringe opening TikTok; it is one of the biggest cesspools I have seen on social media. I will give the Chinese social engineering hackers their props. First, they enter our commerce chain tariff-free by sending small packages directly from China until Trump shut that down; Biden didn’t and Black people voted for Biden and got nothing.

But we have to give those CCP social engineers credit for TikTok because they use the same strategy I always practiced. That strategy is let them be themselves. You don’t need to censor or control narratives; when you let them be themselves, they will reduce themselves to the true level of what they are, a bunch of ignorant shameless clowns that like to run their mouth too much.

TikTok shows us who people really are in real-time. And what we seeing how the sistas are carrying on right now is an eye-opener for any brotha. I believe TikTok killed off Black dating and Black relationships because brothas are seeing how messed up the sistas actually are behind the scenes, not what they pretend to be when they around us brothas.

The biggest reveal was when Kevin Samuels died and how nasty the sistas got on social and started running their mouth. I remember Vivica A Fox who was on Fox Soul with a smirk face talking about Kevin Samuels death. A lot of brothas saw this as a man who was trying to help Black women get a more realistic picture of their dating options and sistas acting offended.

Brothas at that point, and we going to be raw – the brothas said “f*ck these sistas” and it was known. Brothas got their passports, they started dating women from other ethnicities, and they swore off dating Black women. I’m an older generation and did not notice this trending until I was out and about and saw something was different.

This whole “passport bro” and “soft guy” thing among the brothas messed the sistas up who needed Black men as a punching bag to validated her bullsh*t, because no other man on this plan will tolerate that nonsense. I am grown and since the 1980s I seen sellout sistas trying to date other races get real bad things done to them and she is discarded like a piece of toilet paper in a porta-potty.

What we seeing now in 2025, the brothas have changed their own pattern and the dynamics of Black dating. The sistas been kicked to the curb and they all by themselves at the club and other social settings. Yall sistas are living that Beyonce singles ladies song, so go and sing it out with each other.  Because I see it and feel it – the brothas out there are not even thinking about the sistas anymore. And I see the look of disillusion among sistas knowing the Black men not paying her any attention anymore.

Young brothas be bringing their Asian and Latina chick through Lenox Mall in Atlanta demonstrating their new direction in life to the sistas who walk by with nothing to say. But we still see the delusion is stilling going strong on TikTok.

The video in this article about the C.H.R.I.S had me laughing so hard because it showed the level of delusions these pickup artists have become and still trying to sell some bullsh*t out here. She sitting up there with some cute made-up acronym called C.H.R.I.S like she got the game figured out.

I don’t remember her name or care who she is – I see her trying to flex what look like a Royal Oak, I got one of those too and didn’t have to bullsh*t or hustle my people to rock one, if hers is actually real, I don’t know.  But’s let’s talk about her C.H.R.I.S acronym.

She over there “spitting” that C.H.R.I.S philosophy as the attributes a woman should want in a man. Let’s discuss each one.

Credit. She saying a man need access to credit lines – she already f*cked up off the bat. I had a credit score of 550 for the longest time, you know why? Because I was 100% debt-free. I had to get a Venture X and AMEX Platinum to build up credit for getting a house but the housing market inflated, but kept the cards only for the airport lounge and cash out points when using PayPal. You don’t need credit or credit lines and she showing financial ignorance right now. 

Health. She saying a man need a routine or some kind of health regiment going. But let’s look at the sistas with the girdles on and their whole belly pops out when they take it off trying to strip tease for a brotha. Relaxer chemicals in her hair or pulling off a wig and got French braids looking like Leroy Johnson from Fame. Yeah, I’m working out for myself but my history has shown sistas better check her mental health before talking about my physical health.  

Real Estate. This is the only thing I can agree upon and I call it common sense. But here is the big reveal – why would she bring this one up unless she dated garbage ass brothas who didn’t have his own place? She revealing herself a little bit, piece by piece huh? Because she claimed to be a high value woman – I dated Mt. Vernon, Hyde Park, Silver Springs, Simi Valley high-value sistas and trust me, this chick talking ain’t one of them, no matter how hard she tries to floss.

Investments. She is 100% full of sh*t and revealed she gaslighting. No real man making multiple incomes got time to take this woman on a vacation anywhere when he feels like it. That caliber of a man is always on the grind, always thinking about the next chess move, and expanding the empire. Most of all, why the hell would he call her ass up when he got a passport and can meet and greet brand new and fine women overseas in places like Monaco or Dubai or Ibiza or Sweden? She making up stuff and this reveals it – most dudes who got investments watches over the money and the numbers and who competing with him like a hawk, it’s his passion, he ain’t thinking about her ass like that.

Support. Has other men in his life giving him advice and knowledge. Lol, the jokes because a man offering support would tell him to stay away from this silly chick and what she talking about.

I mean, what a load of crock and I was laughing at the outright delusion of this chick. Because the whole funny part is this whole group and that second chick trying to look surprised, and the simp dude sitting there even bothered with this goofy conversation. They are so hellbent on keeping up a false narrative when the real brothas has already left the room.

First of all, and I keep saying this – no sista has the choice, or the preference to pick a good man. That’s the waiting at the finish line for good brothas bullsh*t these Black women think they can pull off. She either build up with one, or she just living a life of getting pumped and dumped.

Meet. Date. Breakup. Repeat. That’s the real life of these sistas who wasting their whole 25 years of viable fertility thinking they can pick a high-value Black man at the finish line. Didn’t lift a damn finger to build up with a Black man, and you want to hear a Boule secret?

The real Black Boule ladies, from high-value Black households were Jack and Jill building up with a good brotha from a very young age and throughout his high school and college years. See, the real high-value sistas had a man or found a good man very easily

It’s these mid-level sistas the ones out there not building up and creating goofy expectations while at the end of day, got pregnant and had a baby by a dusty ass wannabe rapper who got their SoundCloud account deactivated for non-payment and owe six years of back child-support on a $75/week arrangement.

Like I said in my podcast, the brothas are becoming strategic and realizing how to pick a true high-value helpmate. Brothas in the military last century get married to a German, Filipino, Italian, or Korean woman and help her get a business started in America or overseas together. 

Today, brothas are finding other ethnic women who work in the high-paying fields like his Indonesian doctor or that Indian cloud developer at his job, pooling their money and making bigger investments. Starting Amazon stores and not worried about Trump tariffs because they doing drop-shipping from China directly to the Latin American market.  My Japanese boo thang willing to let me get a Japanese green card through marriage from jump while you sistas acting like she trying to get a green card to come to America.

Let me drop a receipt on you all – this was our very first conversation on Line and she was already offering to help me get set up in Japan. You know what – I didn’t see or catch that “n something else” part until just now when I posted this, damn! Talk about passive-aggressive!

So please sistas in America, tell me again exactly what you got to offer a brotha when these other ladies like my Japanese boo thang from the start willing to help me get to bigger and better places around this world? I’ll wait for your answer, sistas.

Because let me sum it up, plain and simple – the brothas are building himself up, getting his money together so he and that other chick can build up their credit together, their health together, their real estate together, their investments together, and their support for each other while this goofy ass chick on TikTok telling you to find a C.H.R.I.S instead of building with a brotha so both of you can have an equal yoke relationship and foundation of love built upon C.H.R.I.S.