One of the most solid relationships in the world, is an FBA brotha and a based Japanese woman. The reason why is the bonded cultural synergy that dates to the early 20th century. We both share historical pattern and practices that goes back to our grandparents, and Japan has a chill and soulful vibe that a brotha will recall in a way that would awaken his soul.

This is why I tell brothas, if they go to Japan, get off the beaten path, and walk around and observe. You will see shops that resemble our own early 1900s shopkeeping during the Great Migration to Northern cities. You will see and taste food that if you are 50 or over, you will remember your grandmother’s egg recipes with a hint of Alaga syrup, how McDonald’s used to taste in the 1980s, and they still have Sizzler restaurants that retained the same taste. And game rooms.

But the biggest impact a brotha from that era will feel is being in a relationship is like being in that 1980s relationship with Stacy Lattisaw, young Janet Jackson, Kim Fields and Moni Love, at the same damn time. If you over 50 and want to go back to that, you better drop that modern feminist nonsense your American woman is on and find your way to Japan.

In this article, we are going to share one of the biggest gems I discovered and that is the Quiet Storm radio. You know what I’m talking about brotha, and this YN generation don’t know about that. In this article, I’m going to walk you through this story and journey.

Look, I’m not going to use my personal relationship with my Japanese boo thang but will explain the overall experience. So, let’s say the brotha name is Edgar and her name is Jenny, damn, ok, kinda close there.

Meeting at Narita Airport

The trip is simple, Edgar is on Marta going to airport, taking the 9:30am Delta direct flight from Atlanta to Tokyo. Be there at 4pm and send Jenny a Line that he arrived and he gets a rabbit emoticon as a response - cute but they are going to be like rabbits later on, trust that.

One of the most beautiful moments for Edgar is arriving at the waiting area at Narita, and there she is, Jenny is blushing red, hands clasp together, and smiling at her Black man she stole from the American sistas and he flew 14 hours just to see her.

On the Keisei Express to Tokyo, Edgar and Jenny are talking and catching up, reminding Edgar of being a young man in the 1980s riding home on the Dan Ryan train with his girlfriend to 87th, walk up to the ramp, kissing her goodbye then take the trains back to Pulaski on the West Side of Chicago.

But Edgar and Jenny know they going to take it nice and slow when they get back to her place, yes, Jenny has her own flat in Tokyo because Edgar found a grown one.

Asking Some Questions

When Edgar gets back to Jenny place, he wants to catch up and ask some questions about what she been doing while he was back in America. Edgar is going to sit her down and look Jenny in her eyes, and ask her who she been f*cking while he was away?

Edgar is going to get his answer out of Jenny, but here is the thing – Edgar don’t care who she been f*cking because Edgar knows Jenny ain’t getting d*ck better than what an FBA brotha like Edgar is putting on her. See, Jenny doesn’t need to get double-eyelid surgery like these other Asian chicks, Edgar will be opening up those almond eyes real wide later on, believe that.

Edgar going to remind Jenny, none of those guys can do it like he can, nice and slow, round and round, all night long.

BBC x TAP

Before I go on, sistas – please don’t come at me because I nor any Black man made up this term “BBC x TAP” – we had nothing to do with that term, these Asian women made up that term. I believe it started in the Philippines with the Filipina women and spread throughout Asia.

BBC means “big Black c**k” and TAP means “tight Asian p**sy” and Asian women believe this is the best sexual partner and experience they can have. As a result, Black men, especially American Black men are in full demand from Asian chicks – from China to Thailand to Japan, everywhere. The Passport brothas walking around Southeast Asia with Asian women screaming “BBC!” and when he finds out, that brotha start blushing – he ain’t coming back to yall sistas anymore!

In Japan, they had the Quiet Storm and still have it running, so Edgar Japanese woman was already loaded with the 1980s soulful lovemaking and vibe. Edgar and Jenny is listening to both American and Japanese Quiet Storm music and breaking out ice cubes, slowly licking each other cold skin, and doing some real love making like the brothas and sistas did back in the 1980s.

Afroasiatic Synergy

The truth is BBC x TAP is best kept secret about an Afroasiatic relationship. Because of the early shared patterns of Black culture, both Edgar and Jenny are discovering how based they are. The cornball White weebs running to Japan ain’t handling sh*t like Edgar because Japanese women are the only ones out there that can ride like a pony with the same rhythm that a sista – well, sistas kinda gained too much weight back in America while Jenny is still slender and soft.

Sorry, Jenny doing it better which is why Edgar passport is stamped out and why he flying out of Atlanta, that Blackest city filled with sistas, right? Jenny still in vibe with the Quiet Storm in 2025, that’s worth the flight for Edgar. Yeah, Edgar over there sleeping next to a based Japanese woman, in Tokyo - Quiet Storm - you brothas do not know what you used to be and missing out, big time.

Standing with the Rain Outside

It’s morning and raining outside, Jenny had fixed Edgar some coffee after they took a rare morning shower together. In Japan and China, it is normal to take a shower and make love in the shower before going to bed. But with BBC x TAP, Jenny know she going to be taking that wrap up shower with Edgar in the morning.

Jenny has to go to work and dressed for business. Edgar is also dressed in business to compliment his woman commuting to her office. Edgar will be going to the Starbucks in Roppongi across from Tokyo Midtown to work on his global empire, write a blog article, in full vibe mode. He will meet Jenny for lunch, then wait for her to get off work in the evening to have dinner and take the train home together.

The one thing Edgar knows as he spends the day at Starbucks, then walk the tranquil and peaceful trail behind Tokyo Midtown center is that he feels fulfilled. Because in America, Edgar remembers the good days and the bad days and remembers the sistas quickly dissing him when things go bad.

But his Japanese woman Jenny was always there, working things out with him, supporting him, telling him she will be there rooting for her man all the way to the end. Edgar, like many other Passport Bros journeying to Japan and discover the beautiful essence of love in an Afroasiatic relationship, is not coming back to the sistas, ever again, period.

Because Edgar knows Jenny, unlike the others, can stand the rain and weather with him as he builds up his global empire and pursue his global dreams. That’s all he ever wanted when he was growing up in America, and he found someone who truly and genuinely a partner, a friend, and a lover, who supports him and that’s all he ever wanted from a woman and he found that in Japan.