There was this one moment here in Atlanta that gave me serious reflection. I still think of that event I witnessed to this day. I was walking from the Marta station to Wal-Mart in Chamblee and saw this young, vibrant sista, who starting her first day on the job. She was smiling, looking very excited to earn her money, and had a clean and natural look that was glowing. I walked with her from the Marta station to Wal-Mart.

About three weeks later, I was back at that same Wal-Mart in the afternoon. As I walked to the front door, I saw this very grown Black dude in his 30s with a baseball cap, another Wal-Mart employee going to his Challenger in the parking lot and that same young woman was walking with her head down and walking like she been ran through rough. Obviously, the grown dude turned her out in that little time.

This is another story of a good girl who has gone bad and basically altered the course of her life forever. She will never be that bright and wonderful girl that I saw excited to make her own move. This is a story that happens everyday in the Black and Latino community among young women.

What happens and this led to the Passport Bro movement, by the time a young brotha put in his work, earn up to his first million, ready for a wife – none and I mean absolute 0% of the Black women are qualified for a brotha like him to be wife material because she got turned out instead of put herself in a position to wait for that right brotha to come along. So that brotha must look somewhere else because he cannot consider a sista deserving of his lifelong sacrifice to be a proper head of household.

You young sistas must learn how to save yourself for your future husband and the right qualified man. Or be at peace with yourself instead of being damaged by someone else. Not only men, but jealous and hateful Black women who quietly want to see you damaged with an unwanted kid.  This is the core problem of the slow decline of the Black family and the Black community.

I really wished that young sista I walked to Wal-Mart with protected her beautiful energy. I wished she had just walked away and stayed on that Marta train when that older dude asked if he could drive her home. The way she looked when she was with that dusty brotha, that’s what happening to young Black women and she is no longer qualified to be with a good brotha.

In Japan, I observed something the women do that I wished younger sistas would do. The women in Japan learned to just walk away or remove themselves from any dude trying to run some game on her. But there is perspective here – Japanese girls be as young as 6 years old walking down the street and riding the subway by herself.

I was waiting for my boo thang after work (I think I said this story before here) and out of nowhere, a young Japanese woman just walked behind me and put her arms around me like I was her man or her shield. Some Japanese dude looking like he recruiting for a hostess bar come to her and saw she was behind me, he walked away. She avoided that situation and stood next to me the entire time, she saw my lady approaching and walked away.

Look, you don't need to do the resting b*tch face and try to be confrontational with a man, I seen way too many chicks get manhandled and that white-knight get shot trying to act like a tough man defending something he knew nothing about. The best thing to do, is simply walk away politely. Don't engage, do this for yourself and save yourself for the future ahead of you.

Young sista, just focus inwardly on saving yourself by learning to stand on your own, walk on your own, and stop looking at dudes trying to show you they have it together when you are young and should be building. The truth is and the problem in our Black community – young Black women should be building with young Black men instead of chasing some dude pretending he got it all for a young sista right now. That’s where young Black women go 100% wrong and take a turn for the worst.

You young sistas will be in situations where people drag you into places but you have to learn to weasel out of them, get yourself to your own space, and stay focused on building yourself up. To be honest, you young sistas will find life more rewarding building up with a young brotha as a partner than chasing the easy way out with a dude that is not there for your best interest.

One more thing I have to stress – these Black women be trying to “blood sacrifice” you young Black sistas by telling you to get with a man with money instead of build up with a young brotha, knowing that dude is going to turn you out and ruin your life. These older Black women are garbage, and you see we high-value brothas don’t want nothing to do with them – don’t listen to her, don’t even try to turn out like her old washup worthless behind.

Be cynical, learn to walk away, learn to stay in your space and look after your future. The real pro-choice is what you done to not get pregnant by a bum ass brotha in the first place.

I need you sistas ready for the Afroasiatic shift - don't mess up your life dealing with garbage dudes back in America. Protect your peace, your path and purpose.