One thing I noticed over and over in the Black community, is we never face our problems and create true resolve. The so-called leaders in our Black community, they resort to emotionalism and then scammers show up offering quick-solutions to a serious problem. The Black community eat all of this up until things go completely south.

On TikTok, we see the sistas are accusing the Passport Bros of coming back with HIV. On the surface, this sounds like defamation of brothas who are looking at global options for dating and relationships. This is referred to as the “bitter sisterhood” by the Black manosphere.

But there is actually something deeper to look at, and it’s not the brothas – it’s the sistas. The sistas are going through the worst crisis and challenging moment in their post-Slavery lifetime. But the conversation is not how to create solutions to the crisis, but to make up stuff about Passport Bros coming back with HIV.

In this article, we are going to explore the real meaning and message and story behind this Passport Bro and HIV because it’s really a bigger picture going on that has everything to do with sistas, and little to nothing to do with brothas.

The Accusations and the Flaws

There is this sista on TikTok who has ashy lips and nappy hair and drawn-on eyebrows talking about the “Darkside of the Passport Bros” making claims that the Passport Bros are coming back with HIV. No information on the ground, no facts, no reference, just a dusty looking sista running her ashy lips on TikTok.

The sistas are making additional videos repeating the lie about Passport Bros and HIV because they think it will make it true. But listening the sistas on TikTok talk, there was some projection between the lies and let’s talk about it.

The Brothas Bringing HIV Back. The brothas are bringing it back? Bring it back to who?  The brothas are not checking sistas in America anymore. But the sistas are saying this as if she is still relevant to a Passport Bro who seen better overseas. This is an attempt for sistas to create a narrative that she is still desired when in reality, her Black man got a passport and moved on.

They Chasing Sex Workers Down There. Once again, the sistas is going to start something that already messed up her trying to be condescending on Filipina women. Dominican women and Colombian women are not sex workers and even the Venezuelan women are not down there sex working for Black men like that. The women down there want a Black American man because they know the long-term strategic value he brings to a relationship – money, stability, mobility, support, appreciation. In Colombia, those women have professional jobs, you sistas lost your mind again trying to condescend and haven’t learned anything.

We Sistas Have Men Overseas That Love Us. Ok, where are the planes full of these overseas men flying in specifically to meet yall sistas? Where? Because I remember some sissy gay dude on TikTok lisping about it’s a plane full of Black men going down to Cartegena to meet Colombian women. I know that got to crush a sista ego – the only female race on this planet that her Black men are crowded on airplanes flying down to see Colombia women, lol, damn.

They have BBLs in Dominican Republic and Colombia. Again, sistas being condescending when brothas are over there and see what they see. In Latin America, they eat a lot of protein and complex carbs like beans and rice. The women are also physically active and as a result, they have little body fat and naturally shapely. They don’t have big butts but well-proportioned shape with hip to waist ratio and projection pleasant to the eye. Brothas don’t chase BBLs, they don’t need that – so again, sistas be wearing girdles hiding her big belly talking about Latina women who are naturally curvy from a lean diet and physical activity.

If you noticed what the sistas are saying, it’s not much about the Passport Bros, it’s what I stated earlier – these sistas cannot accept the situation that Latina women got well-to-do Black American men filling up planes to fly down and see them in Dominican Republic and Colombia. They are not talking about the Passport Bros, they are insinuating the Latina women are carrying HIV and giving to American Black men.

What the Accusation Reveal

On the surface, what we seeing with the sistas making claims about Passport Bros is not handling the situation well her man has left her in mass wholesale amount. The giveaway is making statements that Passport Bros are coming back, which is not true – these brothas are gone and this is a whole multi-generational of men not coming back.

Even if the brotha coming back, he ain’t checking the sistas anymore, he going to check the Asian chicks, and the Latinas, but he damn sure ain’t checking sistas. What the sistas do to change herself to be better after the Passport Bro movement began? She didn’t do anything but sat there alone at the hookah bar and attack the brothas – but these brothas are supposed to come back and put up with what they ran from?

Sistas, the whole world knows what’s going on with your man leaving you and moving on elsewhere. You are making a fool out of yourself on social media and in real life. The respect is lost, sista, just be honest about your perception in this world. Don’t tell us about some other race of men want you – the women in Southeast Asia are just as thick as you and sound more sexier during intimacy than you, sorry but not sorry but look around, they chasing SE Asian chicks instead of yall now.

But this is not new, I believe there is something here that I mentioned in the first paragraph of this article. This whole Passport Bro and HIV is a deflection of what sistas are really facing right now, a full-blown crisis.

The Real Problem Sistas Facing

The sistas are facing an unprecedented crisis. This is a crash and bubble burst of government welfare and subsidies, affirmative action and DEI programs that elevated a lot of sistas artificially that is coming to an end.

There are some serious factors and let’s explain.

Kamala Harris. A lot of Democrat Party operatives are quietly angry they gave into Black women demands to put Kamala Harris on the ticket, bypassing other qualified candidates to replace Joe Biden. Notice the Democrat Party is not even talking about Black women issues anymore and focusing on violent immigrants being deported instead.

Economy. Inflation is still in effect and expected to increase due to the tariffs. Sistas are having a shrinking spending power with mouths to feed.

Return to Office. This is something the sistas enjoyed being able to stay at home and avoid expensive daycare costs. Now that return to office is being mandated, sistas have to find daycare that is more expensive, drive back and forth to work, and now have less time in her day.

Layoffs. The biggest impact of layoffs will be the sistas, this was always the case in all economic downturns. The sistas lose her job, lose income, and what’s worst? Nobody going to hire a sista because they feel she has a nasty attitude.

Fallout from Unemployment. Things start to go downhill rapidly. First the bills are due and hit with late fees. Then the food and house supplies are eating up the savings. Then the eviction/foreclosure, the car and repossession, and there is one more loss.

She Lose Her Man. The sistas was crapping hard on the good solid brothas and he is not coming back to save her. This is the first time in Black history that Black men are not going to rescue their sistas like in the past. The sistas are all on their own and she got it, Miss Independent.

Here is going to be the biggest reveal to the sistas – she going to find out all those Black women who was on social media telling her she don’t need a man, men ain’t sh*t, and all that toxic negative stuff about men, ain’t going to do a damn thing to help her in crisis and will ghost out on her.

Choose to Deflect Instead of Handle Things

Because the sistas are focused on attacking Passport Bros with the HIV lie, this is a classic case of deflection in the Black community. Instead of handling business, sistas become more delusional and irrational in her reasoning and thinking.

This is something I had to learn as a Black person about my community in general. You cannot save these kinds of people. They lean on emotionalism and not roll up their sleeves and handle business to get back on track. Instead, they get more delusional and desperate until the very end when they scream out in despair.

Sistas, you lost. Whatever scheme you had plotted where you was going to be dominate over Black men through government intervention and colluding with anti-Black agents, it didn’t work. You sistas been replaced by other women of color real fast, you lost and you have to eat that one.

Black men crowded on a plane to see Colombian women is facts you sistas cannot handle so you make up this HIV thing instead of figure out how to get your man back. You sistas think you can shame or intimidate a man traveling overseas to be treated like a proper man by a feminine Latina woman with a natural shaped curvy booty and a beautiful smile, yeah, ok.

Deflection and delusions and getting desperate never worked out for the Black community. All it did was further destroy everything around us.

Something Got to Change, Sistas

The sistas are going to have to face the situation in front of her or she going to perish. The reality is sistas are facing homeless, mental illness, isolation, increased risk of serious illness and afflictions if she continues this path that was toxic and self-destructive. Being bitter and lying and shaming is not going to work no more.

I be having women online saying they look at my pics and try to insult me saying I don’t look good. Like every other ugly brotha out there, we found attractive women in other places that do like us and appreciate us and just laugh at the attempt of an American sista still thinking she have leverage to shame and insult us brothas. BTW, everybody know this brotha got money, power, looks, and date fine chicks all over this world including America – these chicks online be talking about me, I look at their profile and they are seriously unattractive and ugly as hell.

Sistas, you got a real crisis going on to be running around claiming Latina women are giving Passport Bros HIV when those Black men are not even checking for American sistas anymore is not a solution. This will not help the sistas mental crisis, eviction crisis, unemployment crisis where everything else goes to hell and a handbasket.

Today, we not playing anymore delusional, deflection games with the sistas. You sistas better sit down and find a real escape plan from this mess. You let these other goofy sistas fall not handling business – you real sistas better find a way to move better and get out of this crisis situation.

Because at the end of the day, these other sistas who are gaslighting you won’t lift a fingernail to help you out on anything.