I see what is going on in the real world as a grown man in his mid-life stage. I see in the real world sistas walking around hiding the fact she is empty and living transactional. I go to events and sistas know there are no other good brothas around and the ones that are around, are not paying attention to the sistas. Then I go online and see sistas trying to shame and emasculate Black men and laughing together in their girl virtual groups.

Sistas, dating and relationships and matrimony are not a joke or a topic to be goofy on. You sistas better look at the individual self on this one and realize this is a chapter of life fulfillment. Because I’m at the age where the sistas I grew up with talking all that crap about us brothas are walking around by herself with no protection, no companionship from us brothas. I won’t even look at a sista in her 40s or 50s when I got chicks overseas in their 20s and 30s I can fly out or fly her in.

A lot of those sistas in my age group have died alone and the brothas don’t even bother to show up at the funeral home for final respect because they remember how she acted towards brothas when she was alive. You sistas giggling now but you better pay attention to how sistas are in their 40s and 50s and see what’s in store if you keep the stupid stuff going.

I’m a Black man and I’m here in Atlanta – I walk down the streets and see bum brothas in their 40s and 50s all gray hair and wrinkled leathered skin and bummy clothes and they are homeless and marginalized from society. I know most of them were Tariq Nasheed, Umar Johnson, Boyce Watkins, and Jason Black followers, laughing online with other brothas until life caught up with their old dusty ass.  

See, I as a Black man know there is no mercy or quarter for an old Black man in his 40s and 50s who didn’t get his act together. He is marginalized, he is done. His neglected prostate, kidneys, liver, blood pressure, and colon will let him know when time is running out.  So as a brotha, I see what I saw and going to make sure that ain’t going to be me. You sistas better catch a goddamn clue because it is worst for sistas who fall into the same path.

Sistas, you do not operate on a one-way street and I see women around the world are realizing this as well. You thought you can crack jokes and think it fun to hate on the men because of some feminist garbage you filled your head up with. You also thought the brothas was going to take it and put up with it and the funny part – you sistas thought you was going to be in your 40s and 50s and be able to pick up one of these good men you been dissing your whole young life and ride into the sunset with him.

The jokes on you sista, because the brothas are woke now and this is all around the world. Like I said earlier in this article, relationships, matrimony are not a joke or a funny topic to giggle about. A brotha, a good brotha had to dedicate his whole life of discipline, sacrifice, and prayer to get to the stage of being a grown well-off, high-value man who can provide and protect his lady and their children. God carried that brotha to that stage as well, while a goofy sista over there cracking jokes not realizing she mocking God plans for that brotha.

Sistas think it funny to say she will pick a bear over a brotha – the brothas don’t find that statement funny, chick. See, I don’t know what the hell got inside any woman head to say or even think that kind of stupid comment and think its whimsical, it is not. So, the brothas decided to respond and let the sistas know what time it is and it appear these brothas are fed up with the sistas and her antics.

The brothas are telling the sistas to go f*ck a bear if she loves them that much. The good brothas just decided to duck out and leave the room and tired of these damn sistas, that’s exactly the sentiment I’m hearing out there. See, the brothas realized something the sistas didn’t think about and I think she realize it by now – Black American women lost her exclusivity to her own Black men seeing she have competition by other women around the world for a Black man.  

Sistas are mad but she is looking really bad out here in this world, giving away her biggest prize. The South American women got them a spouse to get her in America and get some BBC and half-Black, half-Latino cute kids to raise. The Asian women got her a BBC all up in her small orifice about to scream and squirt as her eyes roll to the back of her head – Asian chick be giggling and smug about her Black man with her other Asian girlfriends over tea talking about he got a good job and good BBC and spoils her and her Black man don’t care her butt is flat because his Asian chick is good to him.

Meanwhile, I be at Super Wal-Mart looking at the faces of sistas who I read them and they know the America sista no longer have access to a good Black man. All she got is a dusty dude with a conviction and drug habit to settle for. She know that dusty skinny-jeans dude cannot protect her and the good brothas don’t want her because of how she acted all goofy towards the good brothas and still expected them to stay around and wait for her to get right. Well, the good brothas gone off.

You sistas think it’s a damn joke to be talking about your own Black men online while other sistas around the world see and admire Black men. They laughing at you sistas and be laughing at the Real Housewives of Atlanta episodes on the 14-hour flight from Dallas to Narita. They know brothas rose up from adversity and that’s a strong brotha. These women know their own men and her society culture are sadistic towards her with high femicide rates; she dreaming of having a good self-made Black man to provide and protect and be there as a loving father for their children.

Sista, the only joke is on you. If you ever want to see that joke, go around and look at the leftover and discarded Black women in their 40s and 50s no brotha wants and know he got options. It’s funny when you look at the Sosua YouTube videos with all those Dominican chicks walking around, it’s the same 200 give or take chicks providing service for all these brothas from America – these few hundred Dominican chicks outsourced you sistas, lol!

Better get yourself back together sista, don’t f*ck around with Black Love because that is the most beautiful thing and the day you sistas disrespected it, that’s the reason everything is falling apart fast. I will be in Colombia in a few months with my Colombian boo thang and trust me, I also made up my mind after how you sistas treated me and said you sistas can go f*ck a bear as well...grizzle-grizzle.