There was some TikTok clips and videos circulating around of sistas hanging out at night spots and brunches wondering why there are not any good men around them. Well, if they are not around the sistas, then maybe it is something that turned men off from being around the sistas, it's really the most obvious answer.

I think the sistas kinda know where her man is at – he somewhere else where he feel more appreciated and around someone better than what he was getting from the sistas. The sistas are in a cognitive dissonance state pointing and blaming everybody but her being the reason why this phenomenon of Black men not being around.

In this article, we are going to show exactly where the brothas are at to leave the sistas no doubt. The brothas got their passports and hanging out elsewhere.

Why The Brothas Not Around

The core reason why brothas are not around is because the sistas were screaming they don't need a man. Well, if the sistas don't need a man then the brothas have no business or interest being around a sista that don't need him.

However, there are other women around the world that need an American brotha, want an American brotha and appreciate exactly what an American brotha got to offer her. And as you about to see, these women got the package the brothas are looking for. So let's talk about the two major places with the video proof.

Shout out to the YouTubers who made these videos possible.

Dominican Republic

Sousa has become the popular spot for the brothas and it look like the ladies are there for the American brothas. It is wildly known women from other parts of the Global South are coming to Sousa to get at American brothas. I believe the local ladies are not allowing that to happen and trying to keep the American brothas and his money going to the locals.

If you look at the video, there is something interesting – this is not the Dominicans you see in Northeast America or Florida where they act like they not even Black. These are Afro-Latina women who looking like they want to be around Black American men and she showing out hard. What I find funny is there is a hater saying they got BBLs – I can look and tell a lot of them do not have BBLs – not all of them. I been moving through Latin America since the 1990s and they were thick like that back then and still are.

Sistas, look at the brothas in the video hanging out like a kid in a candy store – that's where your man is at.

Colombia

There is no argument – the women in Colombia are absolutely gorgeous and many would argue the best-looking women in the world. They meet the LSLH, light-skin, long-hair specification that American brothas desire over DSSH sistas back in America.

Cartagena is the popular spot due to having a sizable Afro-Colombian population but you also see women from other background in the video and they are specifically there for the brothas with money showing up. While American sistas be up there making videos talking about American Black men are nothing; these women think the world of American Black men and catering to them.

Sistas, notice there are some baddies in the video approaching brothas and giving a brotha eye attention, even the guy doing the filming. Notice how thick and sexy they look while all the sistas are at the crab spot sucking crab meat out of the shell and got corn on the cob bits between her teeth smiling at everybody.

Brothas are Smiling and Happy Too

The women overseas are not playing – they looking for a husband. I have known for the longest time their idea man is an American Black man. They want biracial children, they want that suburban American lifestyle and SUV and a soccer mom and they want that bedroom action from a brotha.

When I look at the brotha in the video interacting with suitors, I'm thinking the American sistas really miss this catch of a man and she over there filling up her lungs with hookah smoke not realizing that is cutting years off her life expectancy.

Sistas Really Get One Good Shot at This

Here is the problem sistas – when you get goofy about not getting with the right man, there are serious ramifications. The first one is the sistas don't get that second chance at the best one. For a sista, the first dude, maybe in college years is the best option because she can build up with him and there is a background they both have as their beginning. If a sista diss all the good dudes in college, she is going to be settling with men the rest of her life and rarely are they better, they just tolerable.

The second problem is economic – you sistas are dissing good providers who can bring stability and nurturing to your family empire. Not only to your family, but good man holds down the community and provide economic benefit like keep their house well-maintained and participate in church activities. Now look at the broke garbage dudes that got a tore up ghetto car in his driveway leaking oil on the pavement and the house yard got weeds and dried up bushes.

This is why I truly understand why there are arranged marriages because communities realized that the women cannot choose the right man on her own because of her vanity preferences over stability. Arranged marriage work because both are pre-qualified with their background and family line. They are there to build a new legacy and have this understanding.

Dominican Republic and Colombia Clean Up

I want you to look at this more recent video of Cartagena and you will see evidence of a "clean up" of their streets. In the previous video it was women walking around wearing spandex and tattoos and some of them were tacky. Now, you are seeing well-dressed women walking up and down the street, right?

What is happening is they are cracking down on the bad image of the tacky ladies that the brothas were sharing and told them to clean up their act. They setup gates manned by police and if a lady is not proper, she is not allowed to walk in the perimeter. They are also getting rid of the pesky beggars and the kids running around who should be in bed.

The first thing a sista is thinking is the brothas are going to run back home. I would say this is partially correct. What is going to happen is the Pookies are coming back home but they likely is going to chase a migrant chick after they have an acquired taste of these Latina ladies.

What's going to happen and you see the better-quality chicks in the video – the real high value brothas are going to step their game up and more will come down. I see exactly what the government is doing and this was being done in Brazil as well – they know attracting high value Black men will contribute to the local economy in these poor areas and increase the chance of their children becoming productive citizens in their country, supported by a high-value American Black man.

Sistas Got Her Man Took

All that goofy stuff the sistas was posting on Lipstick Alley, listening to these man-hating sistas and validating that garbage, patronizing these relationship experts like Jaxn or Steve Harvey commentary as if they speak for real brothas out there, this all caught up with the sistas.

Now the sistas are out here as the laughing stock by the whole world because she lost her prized possession, her man. All these other women want him and the sistas cannot deny the videos shown in this article, shout out to the YouTubers KBS, Just in Case Research, and Tripper Tours for these videos to show what is really going on that is not being covered in Black media.

So, next Saturday when you sistas are at the crab spot or the breakfast brunch and all you see if low-quality dudes and no good man bother to show up to be around you sistas, just watch these videos again and look at your man enjoying himself with other women overseas. Then realize why he went over there in the first place and correct the reason why you sistas are losing your man like that.